“Women who sleep with biceps and triceps every night don’t understand the struggle of a single woman. They want to tell you, ‘Be patient, he’s coming.’ My relationships were doomed from the beginning, but I kept trying to make them work, because I kept having birthdays, and each year I was single was another chance for some family member to say, ‘Girl, you ain’t married yet? What’s wrong with you?’ You try to hold on to hope and believe what they’re saying is true, but with each birthday, that sparkle of hope turns into a shimmer.”

These are words from one of my coaching clients—I’ll call her Margaret—who I helped through the pain she was dealing with. Now she walks in confidence, knowing who she is.

After going through several of There seems to be a heavy stigma against singleness, as if it’s a negative thing. But being single yet whole within is a true blessing. When you’re single, you can learn about yourself, strengthen your relationship with God, and become the mentally and emotionally complete person you should be before becoming one with the man God sends into your life.

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There seems to be a heavy stigma against singleness, as if it’s a negative thing. But being single yet whole within is a true blessing. When you’re single, you can learn about yourself, strengthen your relationship with God, and become the mentally and emotionally complete person you should be before becoming one with the man God sends into your life.

Dear sister, I moved forward after a broken relationship, and my heart was healed. During my period of singleness, I learned how to guard my heart so I wouldn’t keep falling for Mr. Right Now, and two years later, my husband came along. I won’t tell you it was easy, but I’ll tell you it was worth it! Here’s what I live by, and it hasn’t failed me to date. Never take advice from someone who isn’t getting the results you want to experience. If you don’t like what you see in the life of the messenger, then it’s best to ignore the message.

Join me on my mission of reaching one million women as I endeavor to inspire, inform, and impact the lives of women who desire to have a Godly relationship built on the principles in God’s word.

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Dr. Patricia Shaw, Certified Professional Coach
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Dr. Patricia Shaw, Certified Professional Coach

Teaching women who struggle to move forward in life and love how to go from burn out and overwhelm to living a liberated life. Overflowing with confidence, beaming with clarity, grounded in a committment to who they are.

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