Are you longing for the relationship you know you deserve?

...And ready to learn how to make it a reality?

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Isn’t it time to stop struggling to find the LOVE you deserve? 

To figure out what you want in a partner and go out there and GET IT? To keep the past in the past and build healthy new relationships?

To be LOVED?

Truly joyful, happy relationships have two people that know what they want in their partners. They know the difference between infatuation and love. They know how to overcome the bumps in the road when they get to them.  

They are FOCUSED on communication, intimacy, and keeping the spark alive. They know what they want from a relationship and what their partner wants as well. And because of this, their relationship succeeds in the long term. 

And yet we tend to lose hope so easily when it comes to having a successful relationship. We give up because we think it’s too hard. 




Do you know what you actually want in a relationship? Are you asking for too much? Not enough?

Do you believe that you can have a successful long term relationship? Do you have faith that, even though you’ve had some bad relationships in the past, you can still have a successful relationship in the future? you know HOW to create that relationship?

What Do You Want

Ask yourself…

Am I currently happy with my relationship?  

Is my self esteem attracting me to others?

Are you loving your partner the way they want to be loved?  

Would my life be better if I could answer the question, “Are You The One I Want?”

From the time we’re young, we’re implanted with false ideas of what it means to be in a relationship. 


We spend our entire lives looking for our “soulmate.”

False ideas like these:

 “There’s nobody out there for me.”

“Only a few couples manage to achieve that.”

“I’ve never been in a happy relationship.”

“Love isn’t real.”

“Everyone gets divorced now, why even bother…”

It’s like living in isolation.  

We desperately want to find the partner we deserve and BREAK THROUGH the past relationships that have held us back.  

We need to figure out WHY we’ve made bad choices in the past and how to make better decisions in the future... so we won't let anything stand in the way of the love we deserve. 

But we don’t know how.  

We feel stuck. Discouraged. Overcome by the weight of previous failed relationships.  

But what if there were a solution?  

A way to conquer our past relationships, understand the difference between infatuation and love, know what we want, keep the spark alive, and CONFRONT hurt and disappointment?

Now there is...


Recovery System

The step-by-step process to know the difference between infatuation and love, conquer past relationships, discover the qualities of your ideal partner, and much more!

This powerful course contains 24 lessons that lead you on a step-by-step journey to teach you how to have a SUCCESSFUL relationship. A journey of figuring out if it’s love or oxytocin, knowing the importance of sexuality and sensuality, and overcoming the obstacles. 

A journey to the long-term relationship you deserve.


The SURPRISING ways the chemistry of your body contributes to infatuation 

How to OVERCOME the soulmate myth

How to ELIMINATE negative relationship programming from your childhood 

How to PREPARE yourself for communication

Techniques to MOVE from infatuation to love

How to ACCEPT change

How to DETERMINE what you need in a relationship

STRATEGIES to keep the spark

And so much more!

This powerful journey could absolutely change your life

In 20 years, you could look back on THIS as the time when you finally realized you were capable of a successful long term relationship.

When you accepted love.  

When you stopped being held back by your past relationships, discouraged because you didn’t understand what love was, and developed the relationship you were DESTINED to have.  

This is your moment. 

Your fork in the road 

Your door to a happy relationship. 

The key to the cage has been given to you. You can either open the cage or throw it away. It’s your choice. Will you be loved or lonely? You could try to learn all of this on your own, but it would require hours upon hours of reading and research. You wouldn’t have the guidance of an expert. And you wouldn’t really know if you were making progress. Or you could be taken by the hand and guided on this life changing journey. Which will it be?


#1 Is It Love or Is It Oxytocin? You read about it in books; you sing about it songs. Romantic movies are based upon it. You’ve probably felt it yourself. The “it” is love’s first bite, that feeling of being head over heels in love with someone. But in order to know if a person is right for you, you need to know the difference between true love and the chemicals your body produces. That’s what this lesson is all about. .

Is it love

#3 The Emptiness Within Now that you’ve explored the chemical nature of infatuation and the childhood influences of attraction, it’s time to discover how you may be choosing someone to fill an emptiness within you. This lesson will help you know whether you’re finding love or simply looking to fill a hole. 

The Need Within

#5 The Role Of Past Relationships Your past relationships play a huge role in terms of who you’re attracted to. This lesson will help you identify how your past relationships have shaped you, both for good and bad. You’ll also discover what things you need to be aware of as you open up to future relationships.

The Role Of Past Relationships

#7 Do You Love You? Relationships are the most fulfilling and the most painful teachers in life. In relationships you learn the type of people you are attracted to and what characteristics drive you crazy. But here’s the thing: if you don’t love yourself, you’re prone to making relationship mistakes. This lesson is going to help you determine whether you truly love yourself. 

Do You Love You?

#9 Unknown Influences in Relationships Every relationship has unknown influences that can be both good and bad. The key to a successful relationship is knowing what subconscious things influence you. This lesson will help you unlock the key influences in your relationships and help you manage them appropriately 

#9 - Unknown Influences in Relationships

#11 Will You Communicate With Me? When you speak, you may understand your words in one way while your partner may understand them completely differently. This can have a massive impact on your relationship. In this lesson you’ll learn more about key communication strategies and the different ways people understand what is said to them.

#11 - Will You Communicate With Me?

#13 What’s Your Love Language? Our workouts are heavily focused on powerlifting and Olympic-style moves. We'll help perfect your form with video tutorials.

#13 - What’s Your Love Language?

#15 What Do You Want Most? In this lesson, you’ll go through a guided process to discover what is most important to you. This process will bring greater clarity to what you really, truly, deeply want in a partner. You’ll be guided through a series of questions that will help you know what you really desire in a relationship. 

#15 - What Do You Want Most?

#17 What’s Your Programming? As much as you’ve worked on overcoming what you might call “negative patterns,” there is one specific time they pop up again: during times of stress. Stress can throw you back into the past. Reverting to unhealthy behavior patterns can damage your relationship. This lesson will help you prepare for times of stress, so you can respond in a healthy and supportive manner.

#17 - What’s Your Programming?

#19 What Are Your Non-Negotiables? Leading up to this lesson, you’ve spent a lot of time reflecting on what you really want in a relationship. Now it’s time to decide on your non-negotiables. This lesson will help you map out the things that you absolutely must have in a relationship, as well as the things that aren’t as important.

#19 - What Are Your Non-Negotiables?

#21 Can You Forgive and Forget? In the previous lesson, you examined ways to respond when things go wrong in your relationship. In this lesson, you’ll learn about forgiveness and releasing the pain of past hurts. The ability to forgive is key to having a healthy relationship, and this lesson will guide you through the steps necessary for forgiveness to happen. 

#21 - Can You Forgive and Forget?

#23 Strategies to Keep the Spark What you’ll learn in this lesson is as important as the previous 22 lessons. You’ll find suggestions which have kept many a relationship strong through the difficult times. Life gets routine. You each have a daily routine of work and responsibilities. If you have children, they can take up much of your time. To support your commitment to each other, you need to carve out time just for the two of you. This lesson will give you key strategies for keeping the spark in your relationship. 

#23 - Strategies to Keep the Spark
Childhood Reverberations

#2 Childhood Reverberations The chemicals in your brain aren’t the only aspect of attraction. How you grew up, your relationship with your family, and the beliefs you formed about relationships are major factors in who you’re attracted to. This lesson will help you look at some of those influences and understand how they influence who you are today.

The Soulmate Myth

#4 The Soulmate Myth Now that you know the danger of choosing a partner based upon body chemistry, feelings of need, or familiarity, let’s examine the concept of a soulmate. Is it real...or a myth? This lesson will unlock everything you need to know about the concept of the soulmate. 

Un-Crushing the Crush

#6 Un-Crushing the Crush In this lesson, you’ll learn strategies to make it through a break-up as quickly as possible. Once you learn to move past a break-up, you’re ready to open up to the one you truly want. This lesson will teach you to how move past the heartache of a breakup and be ready for a new relationship. 

#8 - Module 1 Summary and Reflection

#8 Module 1 Summary and Reflection You now know your choice of relationship partners is directed by the relationships of your parents or primary caretakers in childhood, that the chemicals your body produces have a powerful effect upon your feelings, and that your self-image is important in choosing a partner. It’s time to reflect on what you’ve learned, as well as think through how you’re going to implement these things in your life. 

#10 - What’s Important: Physical or Emotional Intimacy?

#10 What’s Important: Physical or Emotional Intimacy? For a relationship to be successful, it’s important to understand both physical and emotional intimacy. Some people want physical intimacy more than emotional, and vice versa. This module will help you understand what you want in terms of intimacy and teach you to understand what others want as well. 

#12 - Sexuality and Sensuality

#12 Sexuality and Sensuality Understanding your sexuality and sensuality can deeply enhance your relationship. But many people either don’t understand their sexual and sensual desires or don’t communicate them clearly. This lesson will help you communicate honestly with your partner about your needs and desires.

#14 - The Challenge of Change

#14 The Challenge of Change This lesson is to help you look beyond those initial passionate stages of the relationship to where you’re celebrating 30, 40, or 50 years together. Those 40+ year relationships faced down a number of challenges by using very specific strategies and skills. This module will teach you the skills needed to get past those challenges. 

#16 - Module 2 Summary and Reflection

#16 Module 2 Summary and Reflection In this lesson, you’re going to reflect on all that you’ve learned about what you want in a partner. You understand the things that make you tick, and now it’s time to think about how you’re going to put those into practice in your relationships. 

#18 - Is it a Mistake or a Pattern?

#18 Is it a Mistake or a Pattern? In this lesson, you’ll discover the difference between mistakes and patterns. A mistake is something everyone makes. It happens once, perhaps twice, and you learn from it. A pattern is an ingrained way of behaving which is difficult to change. You’re going to learn to identify the patterns in your life so you can eliminate them in the future. 

#20 - Confronting Hurt And Disappointment

#20 Confronting Hurt And Disappointment Relationships can change in an instant due to the hidden emotional “mindfield” within everyone. Every relationship will have some measure of hurt and disappointment. It’s simply how relationships are. But you can learn to confront those things in healthy ways that actually strengthen your relationship. That’s what you’ll learn in this lesson. 

#22 - Relationships are Wonderful

#22 Relationships are Wonderful You’ve been delving into some tough information. By the very nature of this course, you’ve looked at challenges and difficulties in relationships. When you focus on them, the tendency is to see only the challenges in relationships. The focus of this lesson is to examine whether you are ready for a committed long-term relationship. Relationships are truly wonderful, but you need to be willing to commit to them.

#24 - Module 3 Summary and Reflection

#24 Module 3 Summary and Reflection During this course, you may come in touch with feelings and memories that are painful, yet crucial to strengthening your relationships. That takes courage. This lesson will help you reflect on all you’ve learned and consider how to implement it in your life.

Get Access To This Life-Changing Program

Recovery System

And you'll get the entire system…

A binder that includes all 24 lessons to lead you on the journey to true love

Additional resources, reflections, and affirmations to help you apply and implement what you’ve learned 

3 module quizzes to empower you to remember the key points 

A thorough understanding of what you need to do to create a successful long-term relationship 

Finally, you're going to....

Let NOTHING stop you from accomplishing your relationship goals

PURSUE that relationship you’ve been thinking about so long

Overcome ALL the negative relationships that have held you back

Discover how to work through the obstacles

Uncover what YOU want from a relationship

STOP putting it off and START making forward progress today

Isn’t it time to embrace the love you deserve?

To have the relationship you know you deserve?  

The choice is yours. 

About Dr. Shaw

Dr. Patricia Shaw

Dr. Patricia Shaw, is a highly sought-after advocate for women, who speaks to the soul of a woman from her own personal struggles with low self-esteem, people pleasing, and not making herself a priority for His glory and Your Inspiration.  

She delivers an in-your-face message to women who are burned out and overwhelmed, struggling to move forward in life and love. She inspires them with her compelling message to live confident in who they are, become clear about what they want, and stay committed until they get it. 

Patricia’s heart’s desire is to lead women to the very heart of God so that they can possess God’s promises and accomplish great things! Her willingness to be transparent in her testimony of conquering her own personal struggles has caused hundreds of thousands to connect with her through social media. 

Patricia has been married for 30 years to her husband Michael and has been mentoring women for the last 25 years. 

My Clients Say.....


In the few years I've been married, I didn't know how to be a submissive wife I would rebel then get frustrated and hard on myself. Since working with Patricia I've learned to acknowledge when that rebellious spirit wants to rise and have the last say where before I wouldn't acknowledge it. I've even started apologizing to my husband. I had been telling him I needed help, and then you came into our lives. I thank God for your ministry. 



Thank you Patricia, your coaching and tips helped me. I am a walking billboard for your coaching.  


I started coaching session with Patricia and they are powerful. I am gaining a sense of understanding about what makes me me. I can say I am a wonderful mother and an excellent wife, but I was hesitant about the woman Sharon. Patricia's coaching helped me put my many roles of lie into perspective. I look forward to each session becuase I know I will receive rich training and my voice is allowed to be heard. I thank God for Patricia's vision and her unique gift of patience she has. I'm grateful knowing I have a strong faith-filled believer leading me into a more excellent future. 

Sharon Wilson

Tina Congratulations to my client Tina and her fiancé, she said yes to his marriage proposal.  

It was shortly after connecting with me on social media that Tina reached out to me about moving forward after a broken relationship and I advised her to start with reading my book, “Soul Ties, Unchain My Heart,” as it portrays the story of how I moved forward after being in a toxic relationship and a few short years later God sent my husband. After reading my book we then had some coaching sessions and I gave her some steps on breaking free and staying free and she said, “I like your advice.” She followed the plan I gave her and six months later, a charming, caring, loving, and God-fearing man walked into her life; but because of her past, she thought she didn’t deserve him. After our many sessions, Tina became confident in who she is, got clear about what she wanted, and stayed committed to the process of moving forward to receive her promise and guess what, I woke up this morning to a message that read, “I said yes.”