I’ve been saying that for as long as I can remember because it’s true.  Prince Harry played with the emotions of a woman for six long years.  Listen, a man that’s not ready will take everything you give to him and still not be ready. Do I need to repeat myself.  I think I do.  A man that is not ready for marriage will take all the cookies out the cookie jar and still not be ready to marry you.
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#2. Woman Up! What exactly does that mean? You’ve heard the term “Man Up?” Well, when a woman steps up and does what is in her best interest then she “woman’s up” regardless of how she feels, she does what is right for her.

When you “woman up” you become the fat lady and you say, “it’s over” and then do as the lyrics in the song by Kenny Rogers.  “You got to know when to hold ‘em, when to fold ‘em, know when to walk away and know when to run.

I don’t advocate divorce, because I myself have been poked, stroked, and rubba dub dubbed by the same man for 10, 585 days (just in case you’re wondering, that’s over 29 years).  I don’t advocate divorce, but if you’re in a situationsihp and the ship has sunk and sailed, you might wanna get your paddle and get to rowing.  When you as a woman, know who you are, you’ll know who he is when he comes along so you won’t be confused and keep getting used.

Imagine what would have happened if Meghan Markle would have allowed her past to keep her from thinking she was worthy of meeting and marrying someone like Prince Harry? Had she not let go of the self-doubt that we tend to hang onto after a failed relationship then she would have never had the confidence to believe she was worthy of a Prince.

Self-doubt keeps a lot of women from having the love they desire and deserve. What words of advice could you give someone who is struggling with self-doubt?

Dr. Patricia Shaw, Certified Professional Coach
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