From Dread to Dream in 2019

write the vision





One thing I’m certain is that you want a successful relationship, bubbling over with joy and peace, filled with contentment and not resentment.  A relationship that makes your heart beat with anticipation every time you hear his voice or see his face.

Yesss hunty, I know exactly how you feel.  I remember years ago when I was in an ugly relationship and it was nothing like the marriage I have today.  That relationship was filled with everything BUT what I wanted!

It was not until I walked out of that ungodly relationship and found out who I was as a woman that I became clear about what I wanted in my husband and not another boyfriend.

See, I learned that in order for me to attract the type of man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, I had to become the woman I was not afraid of being and that took taking a long look in the mirror and working on myself.

When I started becoming a different kind of woman, I started attracting a different type of man.  The type of man who makes promises and keeps them.  The type of man who sees your need and then meets it.  The type of man who had the qualities that set my soul on fire.  The type of man who could light my fire and then turn around and put it out; day after day, wthout reserveration or hesitation.

Yea, that’s the kind of man I desired because that’s the type of love I deserved.

After 27 years of marriage, I became a Certified Professional Coach to help women who struggle to move forward in life and love because they are burned out and overwhelmed by life learn how to live a liberated life.  A life that overflows with confidence, beams with clarity, grounded in a commitment to who they are.

That’s the type of life I’ve lived for many years.  The type of life that drew the kind of love I deserved from the kind of man I desired.

Since working with so many women, here’s what I’ve noticed:

A lack of focus = a scattered life

A woman who doesn’t know what she wants = a woman who’s all over the place with her decision making

A woman who doesn’t understand her worth = a broke, busted, and disgusted woman

A woman who lacks trust in God = a woman who doesn’t recognize the hand of God in every detail of her life.

A woman who lacks self-control = a woman who suffers in many areas of her life especially in her relationships and finances.

A woman who says “yes” to everything = a woman who says “no” to what’s important.

As a woman, whether single or married, you cannot operate in your full potential with all the challenges life throws at you without working on you first; BEFORE he comes along!

Before I could get off the emotional dating roller coaster, I had to know my worth and then walk in it.  It didn’t happen over night, but it happened.

After I became clear about what I wanted, I got confident I could have it and I stayed committed to who and then a few years later, I attracted a man with standards because I became a woman of substance.

Define True Love

The story of “love” is an ever-evolving drama that in most cases has nothing to do with romance. I’m not saying that people’s relationships today do not have romance (although most do not), I’m saying that historically, love, relationships, sex and romance have had very little to do with each other.

During our time together I talk about the different experiences of love and why the “in love” experience is not what you’re after and how to define your version of “true love.”

Design your must-haves for a loving and lasting relationship

Have you ever fallen in love? Or have you had that “in love” feeling? Maybe even more than once in your life? When you first meet someone and an arrow pierces your heart, your mind is high on its own chemical reaction, which makes it hard to make rational decisions about the relationship or the person that you potentially could spend many years with, or even the rest of your life. This chemical reaction can last for months—even up to three years—but what happens after the thrill is gone? You start seeing things more clearly, and you start seeing him for who he truly is.

During our time together I talk about your non-negotiables, you know, that all powerful “list.” We discuss how to write it, refine it so it works, and then, use it to build your dating confidence so you can get of the emotional dating roller coaster and join me on the cruise ship of love.

Create your relationship vision based on a proven 4-P Formula

Does he? Is he? Will he? Maybe? No, those are not questions you use to determine if he’s capable of leading you in life and loving you for a lifetime.  Using your non-negotiables, we use the 4-p’s to create your ideal relationship based on aspects of your life such as romance, intimacy, communicaiton, family, homelife, goals, dreams, finances, spirituality and more.

No, you’re not building a robot, you’re creating a clear and detailed vision of the man you desire to spend the rest of your life with and that takes thought.  As a bonus for you, Dr. Shaw will review your vision in a 90-minute one-on-one coaching call for FREE!

Become the soulmate you desire

Are you really ready for the man of your dreams? Have you become the person you want and need him to be? Oftentimes our list consists of qualites we desire in our soulmate that we ourselves don’t possess.

The purpose of this workshop is to help you prepare for an enlightened relationship. By doing so, often a soul mate falls into place. It is more important to develop healthy relationship skills than it is to find a soul mate. Doing it in reverse is putting the cart before the horse.

The issue with most vision workshops is they only address the actual concept of writing a vision and neglect the emotional, and practical aspects of the journey that women have to navigate through to go from dreading to dreaming.  Especially those who were like me, told by the wrong man they we were not good enough and believed it.

That’s why I’ve gone beyond my vision workshop and created this virtual workshop, From Dread 2 Dream.

This detailed and higly-informative workshop is designed to provide women who want to get off the emotional dating roller coaster with tools they can use to aid them in creating and maintainig a healthy and loving relationship.

The women who attend my live workshops, enroll in one of my coaching programs, or work with me one-on-one have gone further much faster becasue they understand they are worth it.

Congratulations on your decision to register in this highly-engaging workshop and get the tools you need to design the relationship you deserve.


Benefits of this LIVE Training include:

45 minutes of edutaintment from Dr. Patricia Shaw (4 days – a total of 8 hours valued at $800)

One 90-minute coaching session with Dr. Shaw to ensure you utilize all the information shared in the workshop in your vision. (valued at $200) 

Access to a private members only portal where all live training and Q&A questions are uploaded for 24/7 access for a full 365 days (priceless)


BONUS #1:  Know Yourself – The first step to being authentic video training It’s impossible to live authentically without first discovering who you are. Self-awareness is crucial! This first module will help you discover yourself.

What is self-awareness? The dictionary defines self-awareness as “knowledge and awareness of your own personality or character.” When you’re self-aware, you have an accurate and clear understanding of your personality, strengths, weaknesses, and beliefs. You know what makes you tick. Self-awareness also includes an understanding of how others perceive you.

Lacking self-awareness can lead to a very confusing and frustrating life!

BONUS #2:  Who Am I? Pondering Your Personal Identity video training Who you are—your identity—is a powerful force in your life and speaks volumes to others who come into contact with you. Your personal identity includes more than just your thoughts and feelings. In this mini guide, you look at some other things that help make up your personal identity.

 BONUS #3:  Discovering Your Personal Set of Values video training One way to truly know yourself is to get in touch with your own set of values.

 It’s easy to get distracted by others’ ideals and claim that they’re your own because of certain pressures. However, it’s vital that you have your own set of principles and morals so you can stand firm in your beliefs.

 Your values are simply the things that are most important to you at your core. It’s the unwavering belief in what you stand for. When you know your values, you can live an authentic life doing what’s most important to you.


It’s time for you to MANIFEST your dream relationship!

Testimonials & Featured Clients

The hardest things I've ever had to do was forgive my ex-husband who left me for another woman. It was hard for me to co-parent our children with him because every time I saw him my emotions got in the way. Since working with Patricia, I'm learning to control the anger I feel towards him. The assignments she gives are helping me to look inside my heart and not at him. I'm getting back to me and I like it.


I prayed to God to show me someone Godly and that's when you popped up on my FB page. I wanted to learn how to spiritually break free of an ungodly soul tie and I did. I was believing the devils lies that I was a failure and not good enough. I would second guess myself and not believe I would never achieve, but since I've been working with you, now, I truly believe in myself and my life has turned around!


Dr. Shaw, your series and emails have helped push me into this season of grace and I'm daring to believe that if God can blow my mind with this book deal then surely He can send me the man of my dreams Thanks so much for heeding the call to help women pursue their dreams. I am better because of you!


In January of 2018 Marge was a single woman who took the From Dread to Dream 8-week coaching program and on November 2, she married her  forever love. 
In the video I asked Marge did she know what she wanted in a relationship and she said without hesitation, YES! A man who loves The Lord with all his heart and that’s exactly the type of man she married!


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LIVE workshop tickets are NON-REFUNDABLE, but fully transferable to another person if you can no longer attend. Just email our support team at [email protected] with the contact information for the new attendee and we’ll transfer the ticket.

about dr. shaw – your coach

Patricia Shaw is the founder of Women of Excellence Outreach Services, a global personal development company dedicated to educating, inspiring and empowering the lives of women to create their best life right now.

Patricia is the author of an award-nominated book, Soul Ties, Unchain My Heart and several Amazon #1 best-selling books, 365 Days of Self Worth Praise: I Survived and 21 Days of Self Worth Praise – My Journey to Freedom.  She has been featured in numerous media outlets, including Huffington Post and Psychology She holds a Doctorate Degree from CICA Univerity and loves inspiring women to create their best life.

Patricia currently lives in Georgia with her husband Michael of 29 years.  When she’s not writing, speaking or coaching, you can find her on a plane traveling with her husband, loving on her grandchildren, volunteering in her local community or nestled up in her favorite chair with a good book and her favorite blanket.

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