One thing I’m certain is that you want a successful relationship, bubbling over with joy and peace, filled with contentment and not resentment. A relationship that makes your heart beat with anticipation every time you hear his voice or see his face.
Yesss hunty, I know exactly how you feel. I remember years ago when I was in an ugly relationship and it was nothing like the marriage I have today. That relationship was filled with everything BUT what I wanted!
It was not until I walked out of that ungodly relationship and found out who I was as a woman that I became clear about what I wanted in a husband and not another boyfriend.
See, I learned that in order for me to attract the type of man I wanted to spend the rest of my life with, I had to become the woman I was not afraid of becoming and that took taking a long look in the mirror and working on myself.
When I started becoming a different kind of woman, I started attracting a different type of man. The type of man who makes promises and keeps them. The type of man who sees your need and then meets it. The type of man with qualities that set my soul on fire. The type of man who could light my fire and then turn around and put it out; day after day, without reservation or hesitation.
Yea, that’s the kind of man I desired because that’s the type of love I deserved.
HOW I SERVE
As a Certified Professional Relationship Coach, for the last five years, I’ve been helping women who are burned out and overwhelmed with life and struggling to move forward in their relationship get the kind of love they give!
By teaching them how to get clear about what they want, gain the confidence they need to receive it, and stay committed to living true to their values so they can join me on the cruise ship of love and finally get off the emotional dating roller coaster once and for all!
WHAT I NOTICE
Since working with so many women, here’s what I’ve noticed:
A lack of focus = a scattered life
A woman who doesn’t know what she wants is a woman who’s all over the place with her decision making
A woman who doesn’t understand her worth is a broke, busted, and disgusted woman because she’s doing everything to entertain somebody that’s not worth entertaining!
A woman who lacks trust in God is a woman who doesn’t recognize the hand of God in every detail of her life
A woman who lacks self-control is a woman who suffers in many areas of her life especially in her relationships and finances
A woman who says “yes” to everything is a woman who says “no” to what’s important
As a woman, you cannot operate in your full potential with all the challenges life throws at you without working on you first; BEFORE he comes along!
Before I could get off the emotional dating roller coaster, I had to learn how to love myself for myself. It didn’t happen overnight, but it happened.
After I became clear about what I wanted, I gained confidence in who I was and that helped me stay committed to my values and a few years later in walked my husband.
See, when you know who you are as a woman, you’ll know who he is to you as a man. Every man that steps to you is not meant for you. Clarity keeps you from being confused and getting used.
I attracted the kind of love I desired from the type of man I deserved. A man with standards because I became a woman of substance!
Join me for the next few days and let’s write your relationship vision.
Dr. Patricia Shaw, Master Relationship Coach
Teaching women who struggle to move forward in life and love how to go from burnedout and overwhelmed to living a liberated life. Overflowing with confidence, beaming with clarity, grounded in a commitment to who they are.