A Toxic Relationship I Just Can’t Quit!
“Patricia, I’m in a relationship I know is toxic but I just can’t stop it? How can I stop giving into him when I know he really doesn’t love me? My flesh is weak when it comes this man.” A while back I hosted The Soul of a Woman workshop and one of the women in attendance asked this question and I began sharing my personal story with her as I understood what she was saying. (You Can Read It Here)
“How did I get here? Why can’t I shake this man? He treats me like less than a person, but I keep going back to him. Those are the words I repeated in my head over the course of our relationship. What started as a childlike love affair ended as a tumultuous tornado.” Soul Ties, Unchain My Heart(click the link and get your copy)
Years ago, I was in a toxic relationship, what started out as a child-like love affair, turned out to be a spider web full of lies and deceit and I found myself entangled in his web of deceit so deeply that I didn’t know where or even how to break free.
I desperately wanted to be free of the thoughts of this man but didn’t know what to do. I felt hopeless, embarrassed, and vulnerable and didn’t know why I couldn’t let go.
But one day I did and I vowed never to let another man use me like he did and I stayed true to myself until God sent my husband a few years later.
This wrong turn that I willfully took, caused me great pain and even though I took this wrong path in life; I didn’t stay on that path. When I broke free of this toxic relationship, I learned the meaning of true love and I found out how to get in position to receive the love I desired and deserved.
Change Your Relationship Status in 21 Days!
How can I make such a bold statement? Because it’s true. You can change your relationship status in 21 days but it takes work which most people don’t want to do.
During the workshop, I asked those in attendance did they know what makes a woman different from a man other than our physical anatomies and most of them answered no.
Because I’m on a mission to empower women to live their best life, that can’t happen if you’re in and out of toxic relationships, and over the next 21 days my goal is to:
- INFORM you on how and why the enemy wants to defeat you in your relationships and the #1 tactic he uses to keep you living beneath your privilege when it comes to a being in a healthy and honest relationship.
- INSPIRE you to conduct a heart assessment so you can rid yourself of any toxins that may be contaminating your soul.
- IMPACT your life in such a positive way that you will begin believing, just like my
clients,,that your life has a purpose and you’re sho nuffworth it!
Relationship Status – Healthy & Healed!
I’ve got to admit, most people in the world want change, but they fail to realize that in order for change to happen they’ve got to do something. Yes, that’s right, you’ve got to do something and today I need you to take action.
Every day for the next 21 days I will post a new thought-provoking blog to inform, inspire, and impact your life. But today, I need you to register for a FREE webinar I’m hosting on Thursday, September 28, 2017 “From Headship to Queenship: The Rise And Fall of an Independent Woman”
When you register for this FREE webinar you’ll be added to the list to receive the replay just in case you aren’t able to attend the live event AND guess what? Seating is limited.
Register today and get the FREE ebook below as my gift to you!!!
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Patricia Shaw, Certified Professional Lifestyle Coach, Author & Speaker
“Helping women who struggle to move forward in life and love go from burnout and overwhelm to living a liberated life. Overflowing with confidence, beaming with clarity, grounded in a commitment to who they are.”